Saturday, 25 April 2015

It's Okay Not Want To Be Alone.


That being alone makes us smaller, not bigger. Simpler, not smarter. And more depressed, not more independent. We need other people to lean on in our times of struggle. And perhaps more importantly, we need them to learn from. - Heidi Priebe


At times, I want to be alone, at times, not. I am grateful to meet people who will drag me out of my house / boring study-work life. They brings me to see the world that makes me learn and become better. Sometimes we want to socialize but we are just lazy to do so :x! I always want to make an effort to go out and socialize more but... Heh!

I know I don't enjoy being alone so I hated most when I am in a big group yet still able to feel alone... Oh well, that's why people often say we need to socialize with "birds of the same feathers!". I guess I can relate this well! So yea, at times, I would rather be alone in a crowd feeling not alone than being in a group feeling alone. Heh!

There are many ways of not feeling alone (e.g. watching drama, reading books, listening to music, strolling in the crowd, shopping!) You probably feel less alone, or maybe not alone anymore! All you need to do is to find the right way of not feeling alone, not really to socialize with the "different feathers", I guess.

Note to self: Maybe you still need to socialize with the "different feathers" which might makes you grow a little, hmm...