【喜不喜歡，合不合適，能不能在一起，是三件不同的事...】
“我喜欢你。”
“对不起，我们不合适。”
“在一起吧。”
Have you ever being in love / loved by someone (mutually) but not able to be together? You know that both of you are not compatible (in terms of character or family background), you know being together is like going to be the last thing that will happen on earth.
How hard could it be to just break through those "walls" and be together? If you never try, you never know.
The funny thing is, without trying, we know. Maybe we did try. We tried to change for each other. We tried to believe that maybe we can go through this together. We tried... But we failed too. Maybe our love are not strong enough to break through those stupid little boundaries. Maybe we are just lazy to fight for it. Ended up, we kept the love deep inside our heart giving wishes to each other. Happy for each other to have found someone that are compatible with each other. And we given up on ours.
At the end of the day / life, we realize actually we are still deeply in love with each other. We regret not fighting for it. We regret not trying hard enough. We let go too fast. At the end, we only can accept that we have given up a love that could be so beautiful. Maybe just like what Heidi Priebe (2015) said, "This is the realization that missing you is going to become a second heartbeat in my body, strong and thrumming in all inside of every place where you lingered and then left. "
On the contrary, maybe if we had hold on too tight, we might lose each other, both physically and psychologically. Our relationship may turn sour. Things might not be better but worst. We might have ended up with hatred because we might lost ourselves for each other.
There's always two side for everything. Is whether we would prefer to accept which side of it.
Accepting the positive side of it seems to be what I will do (my like)! At the end, I believe that psychological love is greater than physical. At least it became an unconditional love, kept deep inside us, giving each other the best-est wishes on earth. Our parting, my wishes and the last gift for you is always wishing you the best. And I guess that's what we should do for our beloved.
As all we need is to "seeing through it", isn't it?
