Monday, 2 March 2015

Effort = Love?

Can effort put in really pays off?
Can someone really be touched and fall for one just because of the effort contributed?
Is that really love? Will this love last?


I am always stuck at believing effort put in touched someone's heart and is that true love or just relying?

Knowing there is someone out there in this world who will care for you and be there for you.
Who doesn't like this comfort?
But can we just blindly treat this comfort as love? And just take it for granted?
Can this comfort turns into love after years together, if we have the effort to try?

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Watched a touched confession video by a girl.
She puts in endless effort on a guy she met only onscreen.
But she can fall so deeply for her and everyone only told her is just a dream.
To me, it wasn't. At the downside of life, the person who appears in your life is the one that you will remember for life. And we will normally turn this person into the love of our life.
I had this downside before, there is this one guy who appear too. He became the stength and happiness of my life till today.
Though we are apart from each other now, the memories with him stay. His happy-go-lucky stays.
Partially it was the effort that touches my heart and makes me "fall" for him.
But till today, I am not sure is that true love.

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Effort contributes to a part in love but the feeling and trust stands the most important position.
I've seen a love which started not because of love but misunderstanding.
They are still together, happily?.
But there are too many secret between both of them.
If I were them, I would have given up long ago.
I admire their effort to maintain this relationship.
I told myself to start putting in effort for love.

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We should all believe we ripe what we sow.
Don't doubt your effort for love.
It might not end in a good way.
But the effort puts in will let the memories remain.
It is the way people remember you when you leave one day.

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Dear Friend,

I still miss you.
See you again, a lifetime promise.

Regards,

Your-Attitude-Friend. (Just for you).